There’s a different kind of charm in people who don’t try too hard. Not the ones constantly chasing aesthetics or curating everything for Instagram. I’m talking about people who live in a way that feels deeply natural to them, where everything they do is a reflection of their inner rhythm. The way they carry themselves, the way they interact with things, the little details that feel so distinctly them - those are the people I find chic.
Not expensive chic. Not runway chic. Just… effortlessly themselves. Authentically chic.
Let me explain.
1. Having a signature scent.
Not something they discovered last week on a trending reel. I’m talking about someone who’s worn the same perfume for years. The kind of scent that walks into the room before they do. That sticks to their jackets and gets soaked into the pages of their journals. People like this don’t change perfumes every month. They commit. And that scent becomes theirs. It tells you everything without them needing to speak a word. It’s not about impressing anyone. It’s about familiarity. Intimacy. Memory. That’s what makes it chic.
2. Drawing on everything.
These are the people who can’t stop sketching, not because they’re artists, but because they need to draw. In class, at cafés, in the margins of their notes, on receipts, tissue papers, and their own hands. Tiny suns, stick figures, half-finished faces, flowers, random lyrics, inside jokes no one else will get. They don’t do it to look cool. They’re just leaking creativity without even realizing it. And that? That unconscious expression? It’s deeply chic.
3. Fixing things instead of replacing them.
There’s something deeply charming about people who’d rather tape their broken mirror than throw it out. Who’ll sew the tear in their canvas bag, glue the ceramic mug handle back, or keep a phone with a half-working touchscreen because they know exactly where to tap to make it work.
It’s not laziness. It’s care. It’s a belief in the idea that not everything broken needs to be discarded. They don’t chase perfection. They honor use. They keep what matters, even when it’s worn out. That quiet loyalty to objects? I think that’s endlessly beautiful & chic.
4. Carrying a book in their bag everywhere.
Even if they won’t read it today. Even if it’s heavy. There’s always a book. Dog-eared, slightly bent at the corners, maybe underlined in places. People like this treat books like companions, not content to be consumed, but friends to carry around.
They’ll read a few pages while waiting at a café. Or on the train. Or maybe not at all, they just like having it with them. Like a reminder of something slower, more grounded. In a world of speed, that kind of stillness stands out. That’s incredibly chic.
5. Using wired earphones.
Everyone switched to Bluetooth, but these people stayed loyal. Not out of protest, not to be edgy, but because it’s what works for them. You’ll see them untangling the mess before a bus ride. Or carefully wrapping the wire around their phone when they’re done. Maybe there’s a bit of tape holding the left bud in place. Maybe one side doesn’t even work perfectly anymore, but it’s theirs. It’s familiar. It’s routine.
There’s something really grounded about people who don’t obsess over the latest upgrade. Those who keep what they have, even when it’s a little broken. They don’t need to flash convenience. They move at their own pace. That kind of self-trust? That’s chic.
6. Customizing body.
It’s the person who dyed their hair blue once in tenth grade and never looked back. The one who got a small, misspelled tattoo on a random Tuesday. Someone who wears braids in summer and buzzes it off in winter. People who pierce their ears in uneven ways. Who uses their nails as moodboards. Who draws hearts on their wrists in pen and redraws them the next day.
It’s not about being cool. It’s about making the outside feel like the inside. Like saying: This is mine. This is me. This body? I live here. So I’ll decorate it however the hell I want.
There’s something incredibly tender about this quiet ownership. That kind of honesty is always chic.
7. Still using alarm clocks.
A real one. Not the iPhone beep. Not “Alexa, wake me up.” A clock that ticks. Maybe the plastic kind you have to twist manually. Maybe it lights up in the dark. People who do this are reclaiming sleep as something sacred, not just scheduled. They don’t want to wake up to blue light or 14 notifications. They want a quiet beginning to the day.
It’s simple. But it shows intention. And in a world that wants to automate every part of our life, keeping something this analog is quietly powerful & extremely chic.
8. Owning one pair of shoes that goes with everything.
Worn, loved, probably cleaned with a toothbrush now and then. Not because they don’t want more, but because they genuinely don’t need more. They know what works. That pair has walked through markets, airports, train stations, maybe even rainstorms. You can tell it’s seen things.
People like this have confidence in consistency. They don’t need variety to feel expressive; they let their life do the talking. That kind of quiet certainty is always chic.
9. Saving ticket stubs.
From movies. Trains. Exhibitions. Theme parks. Even the boring metro rides. Not to post, not to scrapbook, but just because it felt important in the moment. These people might have a little pouch or box somewhere, full of paper from places they’ve been. They keep the physical proof, even when everything else is digital.
It’s a form of memory-keeping that doesn’t rely on perfection, just presence. And anyone who can romanticize a bus ride from five years ago? That’s someone who’s paying attention. That is authentically chic.
And maybe that’s the thing.
What’s truly chic isn’t loud. It’s not curated in the way we’ve come to expect. It’s found in the in-betweens the worn-out sleeves of a favorite hoodie, the way someone folds their napkin after eating, the kind of music they hum while cleaning their room. It’s not always fashionable. But it’s always felt.
I’ve started noticing it more often. In people who don’t even realize they’re doing something beautiful. In habits that feel like second nature. In softness that isn’t trying to impress anyone. I think being “authentically chic” isn’t about having a particular aesthetic; it’s about moving through life in a way that’s so you, it becomes magnetic without trying.
It’s quiet. But it stays with you. Like a song you didn’t expect to love but now can’t stop playing.
I found myself a few of these. Thank you so much 😊
all of these things are sooo cool thank you for sharing!!